Crying

8 week old cries from 7:30pm until 1am every night. Nothing I do settles her. Other half is pissing me off so much. He says she's just a crier. How bloody stupid is that! I want to throw something at him. I've had an awful day between the baby not settling and my 3 year old acting out and just doing silly things for negative attention. I just feel like such a failure.my body aches from rocking and holding the baby and then wrestling a riddle and having her pull and climb out of me. I've cried about 4 times this evening. And that dick head I married actually looks like he is annoyed.