Is it rude for me to not want to visit with people who are sick? I'm 22 weeks pregnant and my son is 18 months old.. I dont want to come across petty, but I can't take any medications if I get sick, and my son and I have been lucky enough not to catch anything yet. My husbands grandparents are in town and his grandpa is sick with a bad cold. They have pretty poor boundaries and I know they wouldn't keep their distance if we go see them. I'm just already in a difficult place with my husbands mom because shes just so pushy and constantly pushing my boundaries... I dont want to seem like an asshole.. but I also really dont want to catch anything? Sick and pregnancy dont go together well. Any advice on how to handle this? Do I just need to suck it up and go? I have already received 6 text messages from my mother in law asking us to come sooner than we planned ( which was for dinner) and telling us to just load up on vitamins because they are sick.