Frustrated

I'm about ready to pull my hair out or better yet my husbands! We've been trying for over a year and nothing. I went ahead and got myself checked out: blood work, HSG (ouch!) and an ultrasound. Results showed I was "text book" fertile. Had my husband go to his urologist to get himself checked out. It took him 3 months to go for a semen analysis. The results were not good. We went to a fertility specialist who suggested no more than 4 drink per week. But now football season has begun and of course the all day drinking ensues. 
He started taking fertilaid about a month ago. He doesn't want to do <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a> yet but doesn't seem to be taking the Fertility specialist's advice. Arrrghhhhh! 
Sorry for the rant.