I have nothing

I have nothing, he took that all away from me. I left when I found out I was pregnant and he's made my life hell ever since. I can't have Facebook Bcuz somehow he finds out what I post. I can't have Instagram Bcuz again he finds out what I post. I can't do anything without him finding out. He's everywhere and has others telling him what I do or post. Going private doesn't even do the trick and what's the point of social media when we can't even have friends Bcuz you don't know who's telling him information. It's just not fair. He threatened to take my baby from me, fight to get full custody. I know he won't win Bcuz I'll be a damn good mother but how am I supposed to enjoy pregnancy when I know what's at the end? Court. And if we get joint custody? I'm so afraid he'll take him away from me. How can anyone live this way? The knowledge I'll have him in my life forever? Sharing my child. I'll never have any peace, he'll ruin everything. 
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As

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Don't put him on the birth certificate and there shouldn't be too many problems 

MJ

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Keep everything private from this point on and only share information with friends that you know for sure do not communicate with him.... At the hospital you can also request you and the child be private and no one but who you tell will be at the hospital... Don't put yourself through unnecessary stress... Think about the beautiful life you're going to bring into this world and the amazing mother you will be!🙏🏼Prayers to you...

Di

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You need to document all of this behavior. Keep every text/post that is threatening. Pretty much you are building your case against him now to get full custody. He is controlling and appears to be emotionally abusive. This will not go well in court for him. 

Kr

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This sounds like my life

Da

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I went through the same thing he thought I wanted money so he wanted me to have an importune I told him to keep his money and I kept the child he made my life hell the whole nine months once the baby was born he showed up to see if it was his which I had no doubt it was and it's been five years and he's left us alone, some men just want control there's really nothing you need fur baby except warm clothes nurse the baby and make diapers and give it all your love also as long as your nursing the baby cannot spend the night with him. So if need be nurse until he starts school, pull out all the stops anything you need to do