Help...

Im in need of some advice.

My boyfriend always expects me to give him head and ALWAYS cums first. He does not seem to care about my pleasure at all, I truly do not remember the last time he gave me oral, and I don’t think he has ever done that for more than 5 minutes. It’s almost like it’s inconvenient for him.

Example: Today, he told me he was going to eat me out when we got home from running errands. Well, we get home and I gave him a bj and then we had sex, nothing for me... again. I’m not sure why I am surprised.

How do I bring this up and talk to him about it? We have been together for over a year and I’m sick of feeling like my needs do not matter.