I have a 5 week old baby with my ex boyfriend . My ex and I had issues the entire pregnancy. He was verbally abusive to me and threatened killing me if I didn’t send him a picture of our baby ( he lives in another state ) , telling me he’ll take him from me and threatening physical abuse etc. insulting me with all his energy . Going back and forth between wanting to be in baby’s life or not . I sent him a picture of baby and he appreciated it for a second but then went back to being really upset and everything . He’s not on birth certificate , or anything . We have never been married . I’m a young mom. I have been talking to another man who really wants to be with me and everything & I truly have feelings for him and it’s been going great , but he really wants me to move in with him and everything and he’s willing to work things through with me . And says he loves me and everything and has proved it to an extent . But I have really bad trust issues because of my ex . But I look at my baby and I want his dad to be in his life and I don’t want him to go through custody battle or anything . I had two attorneys tell me not to speak to my ex but my emotions get the best of me sometimes and I need to make a decision cause it’s really killing me . I do not live with the guy I’ve been talking to or anything . I just really need advice please . I want to do what’s best for my son. My ex told me he’s sorry and I hurt him really bad and he just wants to be with me and our baby and everything and I do love him and would love for us to work things out but I’m terrified at the same time . What would u do?