Ok so our niece lives with has done for 9 years. Has 2 kids She works nights from 6pm till 9pm 3 hours shifts about 3-4 times a week shes just gotten a new girlfriend and ever since that's happened she takes all the kids to school comes home sleeps until 1 and then goes and gets the kids does nothing until it's time to leave for work. Before I had bub and before she met this girl she use to help and do housework.

I'm cleaning in between feeds making dinner for everyone doing the dishes everyones washing. If I'm doing something and bub cries she will pick him up and wait until I make his bottle. I should say she is 27 also!!!

I'm getting frustrated we have 8 kids in our house i get 6 are mine. I dont know how to tell her to help me more. Yet she tells me to take it easy and not do to much yet she wont help at all. I called her name yesterday and she snapped at me bub had power chucked everywhere and I asked her for some assistance which she got mad at me for.

My hubby works 6 days a week from 8am till 6 PM has Mondays off which he does the yard work and is currently painting the bathroom. Hes starting to get on my back cos the housework isnt done. I'm really struggling to put my head in the game. I'm 13 days pp and I feel off with the fairies most days and get mad at everyone but I dont want to cause fights so frustrating I'm at the point I'm ready to snap!!!