Visitors after birth

How are you ladies handling visitors?

My baby is a week old tomorrow and I feel like it's so overwhelming. My mom has stayed with my SO and I for the week to actually help, unlike everyone else. So I feel guilty when I tell him I need a break from his family visiting Every. Damn. Day.

Some of them have already overstepped boundaries and disrespected what him or I ask of them. I mean, the day after I had her, there were 11 people sitting in my post partum room just passing her around like a rag doll. I feel like I'm not being taken seriously with his family and I am going to end up being momzilla here soon.