I think I’m going to crack

I know this is the same as the pinned post, but seriously how do other moms handle it. My husband is a SAHD (because he is disabled) I work 2 jobs (roughly 70-75 hours a week). I’m so exhausted when I get home only to find all the lovely little messes my toddler has made. I usually end up trying to ignore the cleaning so I can focus on making dinner but by the end of a couple of days of this my stress level is through the roof because of the mess. I don’t know how to fit in cooking, cleaning and work in my day and still get to bed before 11 so I don’t wake up wanting to murder someone at 4 am when my alarm goes off.

I cannot understand how all of you can do it!