Anal tips pleaseeeee

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My boy and I have tried anal twice and both time I have to tell him to stop because it's so painful. The thing is I really want to do it though. We use lube and tried with and without a condom. Tips please!

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Ab

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I sell sex toys for a living, and got told this when I started: Relax. Be in a position where you are in control. (I prefer cowgirl personally). Lube is your friend, so use plenty. When he enters, it will sting. Don’t pull him straight out or it’ll never succeed. The stinging is only for a few seconds. Slowly increase how much of him is in and he’ll gentle begin to fit. When he is fully in take a minute just to take his size in and allow everything to settle. Then you can start moving 😁

Si

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Have him massage your ass and really try to relax. Plenty of lube and go slow. Also if you want to warm up before hand, get a soft butt plug. Not too wide. Works like a charm 😉

Am

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There is a numbing lube that will help you but may or may not help him if he is not using a condom. This not only numbs it but helps the muscles relax. It also helps if you have it “preped” by a small toy or his fingers to help stretch.

Al

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Lube it. Lube is awsome

Da

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Try starting out on top so you to control the pace

El

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Make sure you are fully relaxed and not tensing at all. If you tense up it will hurt. Once you relax completely it should feel better.