My husband and I are sleeping in separate rooms. Is that a bad thing?

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Right now I sleep in our bed and he sleeps in the living room. I have to be up at 6 in the morning for work. He doesn't go to sleep until after 3 in the morning. Him being in the living room guarantees me getting sleep at a decent hour without the tv in the background. Do ya'll think this will negatively affect our marriage? Should I try to get him to go to sleep earlier? This won't be forever, just how it's been recently.

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If you're both happy with it, then it's fine. It works for some people. It doesn't work for others.

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I wish I could have the bed to myself 😂 consider yourself lucky!

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If it’s what works for you guys and you’re both content with the arrangement then enjoy the extra bed space!

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For us it would be bad, we like to be wrapped around each other. If one of us falls asleep elsewhere, we wake them up and make them come to bed.

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Are you kidding?  You’re my hero lol

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Me & my husband have been sleeping in separate rooms for 2 years now. It has t affected our relationship at all ☺️

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I do too. Works perfectly for us!

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I wish I could do this, but my husband thinks it’s a negative thing for marriage. I just don’t sleep well with others lol

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I think if you don’t take into account what is suppose to be the norm you wouldn’t worry as much. Do your thang. I sometimes wish my husband would go to the spare room so I could sleep with my kids 😂 they snuggle he doesn’t sooo

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My husband and I sleep seperafly for the same exact reasons. And he snores and would keep me and the baby up all night. As long as u still bang and spend time together, it shouldn't matter bc to me a good night's sleep is essential for a happy wife happy life.