Did we miss ovulation????!! 😢😢 4 Years ttc #2

B • Mommy of one 💜

So my husband works out of town, well I thought I ovulated when he was home but I apparently didn’t. I started spotting yesterday and today started ewcm so I took a test and it’s positive... well we had sex last 3 days ago 🙁 did we miss it do you think? I know sperm can survive for 5 days but how realistic is that?! And since I started spotting yesterday could it be possible the egg was released yesterday or the day prior since that is the reason you can spot during ovulation?? Any advice would help, I’m sad he is back at work 9 hours away and we can’t have sex