We are getting married next month. It’ll be three years, we have a two year old, and we are pretty relaxed as a couple. No controlling or anything like that.

Here’s my problem, so he’s completely against the IUD, he thinks it causes infertility. Which it doesn’t. That’s his only issue other than it’s “not normal”. Which sort of pisses me off. We didn’t go head over heels into breastfeeding because “he can’t see the milk disappearing” which he didn’t forbid me from doing it but he wasn’t going out of his way to help me. And now this. After I get on his insurance I’m getting an appointment to put it in since I’m having so many issues with the pill, mood swings, major blood clots, depression, the list goes on and on. Am I wrong for wanting the IUD even though he doesn’t? We probably don’t want another kid. We haven’t gone into length but he went from wanting one majorly to agreeing with me to not. Even when he did want another one he didn’t want it anytime soon. So why am I so upset over this? Help me please 😔