Remembering my son

April 27, 2018 my 2 year old son, James, passed away. I am now pregnant with my rainbow baby girl and she is due on May 6. My husband and I want to remember our son and have James be the middle name. Our daughters name will be Ava James. My husbands family says it’s weird and slightly disrespectful to have James be the middle name. What do you guys think? Is it weird?