Why won’t he eat me out?

No, before you even start... I don’t smell down there. I take super good care of my vagina and before we ever do anything sexual I shower and make sure I’m all fresh. He and I have only had sex a few times and it’s been okay... but there isnt really any foreplay😢 I’m a freaky girl and I love the slow sloppy kissing, the pressure of our body’s, the build up and the wait until sex actually begins. I’ve given him a blow job so it’s not like he’s not doing it because I won’t but the other day he said ”I’ve never eaten pussy and I don’t think I will” But in our text messages when we start to get freaky he says he wants to do all of that. I’m such a sexual person in this stage of my life right now I want all I can get from him. Part of me thinks he just doesn’t want to because he’s nervous that he’s never done it but the other part of me thinks it’s because he is more of a receiver in bed than a giver or at least trying to do other things to make me feel good. How do I get him to be more open to the freaky side of things???