Dealbreaker?😬

If you’ve read my posts before you know my boyfriend is in the army. He’s stationed in Louisiana and I’m currently living in Kentucky to finish up college. Well the distance is absolutely about to kill us so we decided to take a break.... and when I mean “take a break” it means... he won’t talk to me for one day then he comes back asking for forgiveness.

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He recently showed me a video of Kevin Gates doing an interview at the Breakfast Club... in this interview he makes a statement that him and his wife have threesomes all the time and it doesn’t affect their relationship because they know what they have.

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Sooo... he’s an infantryman and they have to do time in the field for training and the week before he left we had fought a lot and then out of nowhere he mentions that he’d like to have a relationship like Kevin Gates and his wife.... and I was like okay I think I could make this happen for you if this is what you really want... and that’s pushing it in my perspective. Anyways, the day before he had to turn his phone in he tells me that he wants a video of me having sex with another man by the time he gets back. I’m freaking out inside!!!!

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I’ve been waiting on him since August and I even mentioned that I’d like to wait until he came in. He said and I quote, “ no one asked you to wait on me, our time together is going to be special no matter what”. That sounds sooo fishy to me....

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Girls I just don’t know what to do.... i don’t really friends I can talk to about this. I just need some advice. Maybe even someone to talk to off of this app. I’m up for anything!!!!

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Do I break up with him? Do I wait for him to come back and talk things out? Like idk what to do at all😭 I’ve been with this man for three years... I’m sort of hurt honestly😭😭😭