Daddy Material

Hubby and I have been togetber 12years, married 6. We're 27 and 28 yrs old. I have found that my hubbu is not really daddy material kr amily oriented as i would like...he is cinstantly working to provide for us but I feel as though he does not really dote on us like other dads. Like when we are out at the beach or at family gatherings he is not really with us. I have to keep telling him come by us or do this for the baby or that...he doesnt really make us comfortable like other dads ensuring that theybget food and bring it for their families, making sure the mom has a little free time..how do other moms manage?