OK let me rephrase. I clearly didn't explain enough. I meant to say whenever I DO ask to use his phone he always gets upset now. It's throwing me off because before we had an open relationship where we had access to each others stuff at any time we wanted and now that's slowly changing. Yes I have my own phone and yes I use my own phone, I actually barely use his because he gets into a fit about it... From an open relationship to "you're not allowed on my phone anymore" type of thing. I'm just overall confused as to how I should react without pissing him off ... I just feel hurt