So frustrating

Does anybody else get tired of hearing “maybe it just wasn’t your time.” Are you 🤬 kidding me? Yes I believe that some things happen for a reason. But don’t tell me that my miscarriages are because it’s “not my time.” I wouldn’t think it would be “time” for the pregnant woman still on drugs or drinking throughout pregnancy. Or the woman that has multiple kids she already neglects or abuses but keep having more. Both of my babies that I have lost were already SO loved. And would have been loved for the rest of my life and beyond. They would have been given the best possible life I could provide, and hopefully I’ll still get to experience that one day. But for the love of god I need people to STOP telling me that.