Mom not happy I’m 🤰

Hey guys so I’m 5’3 I weigh about 280.. my first child was born 32 weeks.. my second baby 19 weeks because my water ruptured early.. we

are pregnant again and we waited until 12 weeks to tell everyone.. we wanted to wait longer but we were just excited.. anyway my mom kind of figured out I’m pregnant and kept asking me so I told her the truth.. And now she’s like I should have lost weight first.. and asking me if I am gambling my life.. because I’m having this baby.. she thinks something bad will happen or I can die because of my weight..honestly I’ve told her there’s a risk with anyone no matter the weight.. I told her if she can’t be happy or positive to not say anything at all.. I mean I am already nervous about labor with my own thoughts.. I don’t need more.. anyone else’s family not supportive because or their weight ?