What would you do
So here's the thing:
My ex and I dated 10 years, so clearly, we shared certain bills. So he has to cash app $$ to me. That is the only communication we have. Now, it wasn't a nasty break up, it was just normal and mutual. I don't hate him, hut I wouldn't consider him a friend.
My new boyfriend of 1.5 years stalks his Facebook page, he swears i'm fucking him. Mind you when I'm not teaching, he is in my face. I treat him well, he is unemployed right now and I look out by letting him drive my car from time to time, and he has been a complete ass. He says, "I want you to unfriend him, you liked a meme," "He still has photos up of u." Mind u, they are profile pictures from years ago in his profile picture album. They aren't 'up' at all. Plus...this man has a girlfriend!
We argue daily about dumb shit. The longest we have went without an argument is 1 week. He says oh, I'm fine, I'm over it, and brings it right back up days later. Everything is, "I love u but..... And he gives something I need to change so he can feel comfortable in the relationship. It's, "Don't talk to me like this.. "(after he had been disrespectful calling me out my name days earlier) "A man is supposed to do this...""A woman supposed to do that.." and my favorite, "I'm not dealing with a woman who can't respect me."
He has friends, ex's, and people he practically dealt with in the beginning before we were official, that he still communicates with. Told one bitch happy birthday last month while I was pregnant. Normally, I wouldn't have cared, but he lied and said him and the bitch didn't talk. So, after I approached him. I said "look, I'm not interested in arguing, just be honest with me. You don't have to be dishonest." He then goes on this entire rant over my ex. He has been discussing him the entire time, but this man has awaken me out of my sleep at 1 am after drinking, telling me that he saw a post I liked and he wants me to delete him. I refused because I offered him an all access relationship and he refused and said he wanted his privacy. All I know, is I'm about to be single. I'm tired of fighting. And as far as I'm concerned, we aren't in a relationship because there is not trust on his end.
Am I wrong for not deleting my ex?
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