Milk allergy

Long story short:

My LO is allergic to milk. We have tried soy milk and almond milk but both do not settle well with her stomach. Because of this we have been using toddler formula in place where she would have a milk cup. But, I’ve been getting A LOT of backlash on this because “we should just be using milk” as opposed to the toddler formula.

I do not allow our LO to drink sodas, ant juices high in sugars and she’s on a pretty balanced diet on account that I try the absolute hardest to keep her healthy, and without discomfort because of her allergy. However, when we get all of these comments about how we are doing it wrong and should just be trying to make it work with the milk I feel defeated.

If your LO is allergic to milk what do you guys use in supplement of that?

I just want the best for my LO.