So this is my 4th and my husband and I decided not to tell anyone for a while. I'm someone that hates being pregnant only because I HATE waiting :) I'm impatient and the long 9 months kill me. Add that to our large close extended family and it guarantees that not only me but 50 other people will be slowly anxiously waiting for baby to arrive. We decided to wait until I was showing and couldn't hide it anymore. We haven't even told our parents, 3kids, or close friends. In some ways I love it and it will be nice to have less wait once everyone knows. On the over hand I can't get any pregnancy sympathy because nobody knows :) anyone else waiting? How long are you waiting for?