****UPDATE *******

Well I found out in May he is living with a woman with 5 kids ,I guess he’s happy .He did attempt to reach out to my son for his birthday after 4 months of no call no show . I shut it down quick I don’t want my son to be let down from him so I have to prepare myself on how to deal with him .. I met a guy I’ve been hanging out with I actually was with the guy at the movies and ran into my kid father his eyes were big , and can you believe he try to introduce himself to my friend as my child’s father ,we walked off .. now he’s calling non stop pretending to want be in his child’s life . Most of his text are about my guy friend . I completely ignore him never respond . Only talking I will do with him is through child support court .. Karma is real !

4 months ago >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

My one year old father and I have been living together for three years . I’ve know him for about 14 years . October 2018 he lost his job and our relationship went down hill . I believe he started to blame me for his job lost . December he stop sleeping in the same bed with me ;started sleeping in my spare room . January 26 I revived a phone call from him stating he’s on his way home . I have never heard from him since .He disconnected his phone , I guess so I can’t contact him . I called his mom two weeks after I haven’t heard from him , she states yes I spoke to him yesterday. I immediately ask what number he called you from she claim not to know . After speaking with her I knew he was living with another woman but I didn’t want to believe he would just abandoned my child like that , this is his only child . I was checking my Walgreens app and it’s showed he has use my phone number to purchase washing powder , bleach and dish liquid . So that’s all the proof I needed he was living with a woman . Sometimes you think you know a person and you really don’t I couldn’t imagine how he could live day to day and pretend he doesn’t have a child . I can’t sleep ,barely eating too embarrassed to talk about it to my friends and family . I know God take people out your life for a reason but it just hurt so bad to think I gave my love to such a hateful person .