❤️Hey ladies! Just want to know your input , and what would you do?❤️

•So baby girl is Due June 13 but can come May 23 and so forth and I’m 31 weeks pregnant (8 Months ) and me and my husband have been forking this entire pregnancy ! We are almost done with everything and not that we needed help but you all know a helping hand never hurt anyone And this is our second baby ❤️ And we are so over the moon to welcome her in this world pretty soon💗 BUT my mom and family Haven’t been around this entire pregnancy haven’t offered to help or really even talk to me about my sweet baby girl and my cousin whom don’t talk to us at all Had a baby shower and she is due around the same time as I am And they All brought her things and my mom was trying to get me to go and buy things as well but I’m getting prepared for my own little girl but the problem that I’m having is my mom always tells me I’m going to get the baby something but I don’t have the money right now but yesterday had a huge thing on clothes bottles and everything for my cousin but hasn’t brought her own grand child a pair of socks 👎🏽 And I love my cousin and everything no bad blood by the way but my mom even asks as if she doesn’t care about this grand child and my family also acts as if baby girl doesn’t even exist when you are use to your family loving and caring about you and looking at others and watching their family be happy about big stages you kind of want the same thing but my family literally haven’t offered anything NOTHING ! However my husbands mom has brought baby girl clothes and car seat and doing everything she can to make the load lighter ! So my thing is Am I wrong for not wanting my family to come to the hospital while I’m in labor but can come after baby girl is born and also not coming over for a few days until I’m comfortable with it ? I don’t want to seem rude but y’all they haven’t been here this entire pregnancy so why should I allow them to crowd my home out when they don’t even care about us?