Hopefully 2 under 2

I grew up an only child which SUCKED ASS. My husband is 11 years older then his brother so he basically grew up an older child as well... which he also hated.

Our daughter is going on 3 months in a few days and we agreed on starting TTC for baby #2! Are there any moms on here who have 2 under 2 ? Or 2 under 3 (just in case it doesn’t happen fast enough)

If so, give me that advice ! Advice on materialistic things that helped, schedules, everrrything!

If the next is a girl, we’re seeett. If not, oh well we’ll have money saved for boy items.