Backstory: I went to the doctor today, I didn’t go for pregnancy testing but rather to see if I had an infection, I’ve been having some lower back and pelvic pain for the last couple of weeks as well as some strong smelling urine, so I thought it was a possible UTI. I described my symptoms and gave a urine sample, before the doctor took my sample back she asked when the last time I had a period was, I told her it was February 22nd; she asked me if I was actively trying and I said no, she asked if I was on the pill and I was about to say “No, but we use condoms.” I only got out the “No” before she crosses her arms and says; “Well then you’re actively trying.” And I said, “No, it was just that one time. We’ve been using condoms. I thought since I shouldn’t have been ovulating it’d be okay but maybe I was wrong.” She rolls her eyes and just speed walks out of the room as I’m finishing my sentence. I just sat there with my husband and kids like “Okay...” I know I sounded stupid but I just didn’t know what else to say. We got caught in the heat of the moment and just did it without caution. 😞 The Doctor comes back and tells me my test is negative, fair enough but then she asks if I want birth control, and I say “that’s kind of a loaded question”, she sighs and glances over to my two kids and says, “I’m going to write you a prescription just in case you change your mind later.” Again, fair enough but I just feel like she was so rude about it, I tried to explain how with my oldest, I took two tests and they came out negative, come to find about a month and half later that I’m pregnant, she rolls her eyes again and says, “These tests are over 99% accurate.” and just rushes out of the room. So I let it go, take my prescription and leave. People often look at me being so young and having two kids as “irresponsible.” But I don’t. My husband has a good paying job and I take good care of both kids, I’m not lazy and I don’t neglect them so I don’t understand why my age is such an issue. I just didn’t feel comfortable after I left, in fact I felt sort of stupid for even going in.