Should I email him or meet him in person ?

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Found out I’m pregnant by my emotionally abusive husband. I left him a few days ago, moved out. He said he didn’t want kids. I’m so happy thou and for sure keeping it. He doesn’t have a phone, should I email him telling him I’m pregnant or meet him face to face? I’m very scared to tell him .. he can be very mean and I don’t want him to stress me out.

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If he was physically abusive to you and said he didnt want children and you think he could harm the child, you would be doing you and your baby a favor by not telling him at all.

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I would email especially if he’s abusive x

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I wouldn’t tell him. Especially since he was abusive.

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Don’t tell him. Telling him could potentially cause him to use the kid as leverage to abuse you more.

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Via email sounds safest for you and baby? 
Especially if he’s been abusive.... 
If you both want to talk once he’s processed the news, then maybe in person... but keep you and your new baby healthy and happy!

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I agree with email, from now on you’re going to want written records of what is said to you! My sisters lawyer told her to only communicate with her ex husband through email so she’d always have proof of his reactions

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If you feel he needs to k me Id tell his family and let them tell him. Then let him contact you via email or whatever.

Should I email him or meet him in person ?

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