So sick of people telling me they don't think my partner loves/respects/values me because we have decided to be Poly.. (or in the case of my mother who doesn't know that about us, simply because he sleeps with me) I'm tired of having to defend my relationship. I mean I don't care if you want to be monogamous or how you measure love. But while you come to me and complain about being worried about the fact that he dated younger hotter girls before you, and how you are insecure about who he is friending on social media. I am over here dealing with my Jealousy by examining myself, and my reactions and by talking to my partner and not stressing . I don't see a man being possessive as love, and I trust my partner to go out with girls I don't know while you can't handle yours talking to a stranger on the street. Who is in a more stable relationship?