Why was No. 1 so easy?

Lindsey
Hello, everyone! First post in Glow! My question is: is there anyone else out there who found it really easy to conceive their first child, but are struggling with subsequent pregnancies? Our daughter was a bit of a surprise, one month between pills and voila! My spouse and I have been trying since about April and no dice. It's absolutely frustrating and each time that two week wait comes I start to feel all the psychosomatic symptoms and convince myself were pregnant and I test and test and test hoping to see a different result and nothing. I think I'm going to drive myself insane. Any tips for holding onto my sanity during the process?