What can I do?

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My husband and I are trying for our 1st child, but I find myself going crazy on my ovulation days.
I hassle him to have sex with me that it kills the whole mood. So lately I've left him alone and our sex life has decrease a lot since we made our decision so try for a child. Now I don't know if he really wants have kids or have I just killed sex for the both of us?

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Talk to him. Yall need to sit down and have a serious one on one talk. Reevaluate if you both as a couple still want to try for a baby.

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I felt like that when we started ttc but when I asked my hubby about it he was fine because he wants a child as much as I do. I let him know the days we need BD in advance so he knows when it's coming so we are both responsible for getting it done. I try to make it fun by changing it up sometimes. Being playful helps a lot

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Have a conversation about where you both are with the issue. If your still going to try stop tracking and just try to have sex ever other day throughout your cycle.

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I seduce my hubby around my fertile window and put the moves on him when I'm not fertile it doesn't feel  like a chore because chores aren't sexy

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There were a few months that I did something similar and would get kind of pushy around my fertile window which didn't help at all. Personally I feel like ovulation causes me to have little mood swings and I just have to self aware and not take it out on my husband. We're on month 9 of TTC #1 and are really trying to BD at least every other day and it's work! We both have to make intimacy a priority over one more TV episode, or extra sleep, or some other distraction of life that gets in the way. I feel like so many people are like ooh you get to "practice" more when TTC which can be fun but it can also take a lot of effort when you're also living your lives with full time jobs, a house and other responsibilities. I would talk with your hubby about if you're having mood swings or what would make it better/more enjoyable for him so that you are both on the same page and working together towards a shared goal. Baby dust!

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