I’m 18 years old and i didn’t know whether to post this on the adult relationship or on teen topics, but i really just need some advice on what to do. So again i’m 18 years old and i’m engaged, were both the same age. My fiancé has been in a really bad place for the last four almost five months and he was lashing out pretty bad. getting mad at me for no reason, saying that i don’t love him or care about him, etc. all of these things really hurt me because i thought that i did something for him to lash out. And me being the person i am i didn’t want to add on to his stress so i kept it all to myself. well a couple days ago we got into an argument and we’ll basically it ended with him saying and quote “you’re so fucking mean, you’re the reason your ex left you” and that just broke me. like to cross that boundary and hurt me like that? it was way to far. ever since things haven’t been normal he tells me he loves me and i know in my heart i do, but when he says i feel like i can’t say it because i am just to hurt. and i don’t know how to forgive him. i don’t know how to move past this. i just don’t know what to do. does anyone have advice for me in what to do? i would really appreciate it.