MIL problems 😔

I need opinions.

When I met my fiancé, his mom said I wasn’t good enough for him which I found weird because she doesn’t even know me and she didn’t raise him. I obviously didn’t want to meet her after her saying that. My fiancé and his mom only saw each other when she wanted something from him or when he had to go pay for his phone bill so two years went by and i didn’t meet her. I told my fiancé I’ll meet her but he was too scared. I got pregnant and i thought it’ll be nice for us to talk so my daughter can have her grandmother in her life.

We made our gender reveal party on her day off but she didn’t show up. She sent us a baby shower gift and my fiancé was super busy with work that he couldn’t call her that day and she called him and flipped out because he didn’t call to say thank you right away

She told my fiancé that he was making a huge mistake by marrying me and that my daughter wasn’t his. She also threatened by saying she was going to come to my job and kept saying “this is war”

I was in shock and upset.

My fiancé didn’t talk to his mom for a year and he finally end up talking to her.

My thing is that he wants to invite her to our wedding but I low key don’t want her there but I’m not going to tell my fiancé how I feel because I know he wants her there. I’ll definitely do this for my fiancé but I’m so upset because this is our special day and I feel like she shouldn’t be there because what she said about me.

Sucky situation..