What do you consider as actually TTC? Tons and tons of sex? Tracking your ovulation? What else? I'm just curious. Because technically my fiancé and I have wanted a baby and have been "trying" for near a year. However, there have been plenty of months where the deed couldn't be done or where I didn't track my ovulation due to stress. So does this mean I've really been trying? Should I count months where he was unable to cum during sex as TTC? Or count the months that we were just too tired or had too much going on? I guess I'm just confused.