Bc / Vacation with my Boyfriend

Hi All:

Most recently me and my bf had a discussion about bc...both me and him are against it bc we feel that it’s unnatural. We are still new in our relationship and have not had sex...yet. My goal is to wait as long as possible, but I think that would be challenging bc if nature. He comes over to my house to stay the night like once a week, and we just make out. He has a lot of self control, but both him and I get horny. I just want to wait for sex though. I’m too scared of making myself sexually vulnerable again.

On the other hand, my bf and I will be taking a vacation soon. He is paying for everything and I somewhat feel bad. However, as a woman, I was raised that a man should be the bread winner. Also, the vacation we are taking is 10 hours away from my hometown. Is this too soon to take and far away for us since we have been dating going on 3 months?