Depression? An excuse? She’s trying to get out of how she acts?

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So my wife she 
Gets upset/frustrated over the smallest things WHICH PISSES ME OFF I THINK SHE DOES IT TO PISS ME OFF
Sleeps a lot or none at all several times she ran on empty with no sleep for 27 hours lol 
Some days she barely eats
Sometimes she rarely gets out of bed 
Some days she gets emotional over idk what and cries 
She always Has this certain look on her face
Anyways she told me she has severe depression she said with everything that’s happened it has retriggered it and it has spun out of control
See a lot of things I did by joining date sites etc which I never did anything had her thinking I was cheating
Anyways this I have depression is an excuse to lash out me, right?

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You sound like an awful partner, I hope she finds the support she needs.

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I have the same issues as her and my husband does NOT get pissed off at me when I have an episode (screaming, frantically crying, having a panic attack damn near) he just sits there quietly listening to me scream nonsense and nodding with caring eyes and kissing my hand.. letting me get it all out in the truck in the Home Depot parking lot before we have to go in. Not rushing me despite the fact that his grandmother & brother were inside waiting for us... he is so patient and kind because he knows this isn’t me.. depression is hell on not only the person who has it but also the people around them but BE PATIENT and BE KIND because they are fighting a battle against their own brain. It’s a difficult hole to climb out of and it doesn’t help if the only person you care about most damn near hates you for it.. all they need is you to hold their hand as they try to get better/cope.

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Depression isn't an excuse, it's a serious medical condition. I'm glad she is going to go get the help she needed. You joining dating sites "to not cheat", could've been the catalyst for the spiral. Just be there and listen.

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Is this the same dickhead who was lying to his wife about his whereabouts, leaving their young children at home unattended to, refused to tell his wife anything remotely close to the truth and then got pissed because she was mad you wouldn’t communicate? Cuz it sounds like you, you miserable twat. GET YOUR HEAD OUT OF YOUR ASS AND STOP ACTING LIKE SCUM, YOU DIRTBAG.

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Can you stop talking about yourself for a moment to let her talk about herself??? Very rude. You should’ve been asking how you can help not talking about yourself in response to those texts.

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That sounds like when I my depression was flaring up really bad (spoiler alert: I ended up in therapy and medicated). Thankfully, my husband wasn't an asshole and he supported me getting the help I needed to get better. It could have very well been triggered by you joining dating sites. How are you supposed to keep her trust when you're telling her she's not enough and you want to see what else is out there? You may not see it that way but she most certainly does and you don't seem to see a lot of this situation for what it is.

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I hate when people "my depression is worse!" "Nuh uh I'm suicidal" "well i tried to kill myself" "oh yeah?!" Like damn just help each other heal

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"Mine is way worse".... FUCK OFFFFFFF

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She’s bipolar bro. Manic phase when she doesn’t sleep. Depressive stage when she sleeps too much. I hope she busts your fucking mouth and leaves you though.

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Sounds bipolar actually

Depression? An excuse? She’s trying to get out of how she acts?

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