I went behind my husbands back.

Leah

Ladies I feel terrible. We had our 20 week ultrasound that my husband and I attended together. We told the sonogram technician that we did not want to find out the gender. I had to go back a week later to get a picture of the heart because the baby was moving so much the first time. Unfortunately my husband could not come because he was working....needless to say, I asked if it was a boy or girl. She said she couldnt tell because the cord was Inbetween the babies legs...so she looked on the previous results from the week before and it said girl!!!!!!! (Which we both want) we have a 2 year old boy!

My question --- because we didnt want to find out would the technician just mark off girl even though she wasnt 100% positive? Or would you believe it's a girl?

And yes yes I know I'm a terrible wife for doing this but it was killing me to the point where I couldnt sleep because that's all i thought of...and my husband wouldn't cave.