When you and your SO are sick. By sick I mean with a cold/stomach virus/etc. Who takes care of whom? Between the two of you whose the patient and whose the Doctor. At the moment my boyfriend is sick. There is a stomach virus going around, my family already caught it and it went away. When I am sick. I like to cure myself so I can cure and heal other people. So since my boyfriend is stubborn he told me " I'm going to eat Chili and take Aleve". I told him " you are going to not feel well because of the chili". After I insisted he take a shower and eat soup and drink tea and take anti acid pills and rest up. Two hours later he feels better. I think guys are strange when it comes to being sick and have weird remedies. So my question is whose the healer when it comes to being sick?