Is my boyfriend allergic to me?

Hi all,

Let me get into some back story first

My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years now. Not until recently I have noticed my SO holding back when it comes to sex. (Refusing, making up excuses to why we can’t have any and so on) which is really unlike him.

Well a few nights ago I finally got it out of him to explain why. He’s complaining of pain.

Now I don’t feel any pain whatsoever ever but..

Neither of us have ever or will ever cheat but for our own amusement we both got tested together and are clean

We have tried different lubes (water, oil and natural base)

Now when it comes to condoms I am allergic to latex (so we try to get non latex)

He claims condoms help but thinks it’s on my end when we choose to not use any (we enjoy not using any but will use them when we have) . Meaning that my vaginal fluid may be the cause to his itches and pains.

I thought about but didn’t know if it was possible. We haven’t changed anything in our diet, hygiene is huge and we both keep clean.

So I was wondering if it’s somehow possible for him to be allergic to me? It’s been really bothering me and as I do have a doc appointment coming up soon I was wondering if this has happened to any body else? And if it’s possible for him to be allergic to me?