This may already be a topic, if it is I couldn't find it, but I was wondering who y'all were planning to have with you during labor? And how you're handling the situation? I want my mom and husband. This is our first, and my mom's first grandchild so I want her to be a part of the experience. On the other hand it is the 6th grand on my husband's side, I would prefer his mom not to be in the room because she tends to make me nervous, but apparently she was there for the other 5 so I don't want to hurt her feelings. Help!