What should be the plan for my toddler any suggestions? I want my Mom and Husband in the room. I don't want my husband leaving the hospital or me until they release me lol. I want my Mom in the room when in labor and pushing and maybe husband in out of the room. But what should I do with my toddler? When should she come to hospital or can she just stay with us after baby is delivered ?? I dunno any suggestions from Moms who have kids?