Late again

Tabbitha

So I’m now three days late. I have decided to wait the full 7 days before I test. I keep getting random cramps like AF is going to show but still nothing. I was late like this a few cycles ago and I tested three time all were negative. I want to have hope but I also don’t want to be heartbroken when AF finally arrives. Ugh just want to talk to someone but I don’t want to share with family or Husband if this is really our time. Anyone been through this should I stay pessimistic or just be happy?