My MIL told my husband her and her husband are coming to visit when the baby is born and staying for a week.  My husband knows his mom and dad stress me out when they are here and tried to tell her that we needed time to bond and perhaps they could get a hotel nearby... She was outraged and couldn't figure out why she would have to sleep elsewhere when she will be spending every waking moment with us.    The problem for me is she hardly speaks English (so I can't really communicate with her), they can't get around our small, rural town without us, they can't even read a menu here in the states, she has no idea how to cook American food and she is OCD about cleanliness.  Her husband expects her to care for him as he's "exhausted from working" and naps the whole time he's here.