Talk Naughty and being sad!

Hi.. Not sure how to start so here it goes! How / where do you start off by sending some really naughty messages to him?? Don't want it to get uncomfortable or weird! He mentioned quiet a few times he would love if I talk naughty to him (being naughty) but at the moment his very far from me 😔 so need to get him going again like the first time! It's almost been 9yrs together 😊 just I don't want to say something and do the wrong moves you know haha...

Which is better? Messages or pics. How and what to send. Haha it sounds like I know nothing but really just want some advice / tips.

Also another thing is, I'm not sure what the plans are as yet.. He wants to stay where he is now as things are good with some things but if I go, I leave my family behind my baby girl (cat almost 8yrs old very small for her age) all the things we bought and put away in boxes (hoping we would start a life where we are / we're) I know life is tough but wow really... 😔 😢 It's now 10months since I last touched him 😓

And no...... He does video call every day so don't mention anything like his over you or his not interested anymore..

Pls,NO RUDE COMMENTS.

Blessings 😇