Is it safe to use a vibrator while pregnant?

Question

My wife and I are nervous to have sex. She's 35 weeks pregnant and I can feel the baby, I think, inside when I use my fingers. Where I once felt her cervix I now feel a hard round mass and it hurts when I touch a certain place. It feels different when we have sex. We thought maybe using a vibrator like a rabbit but are Afraid the vibrating will harm the Baby so we haven't played in weeks which is hard and we won't be able to once she's born too.

What are some safe options to remain intimate?

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Unless her Dr specifically says no sex... or foreplay she's good to go.. try doggy it will help you not feel the baby and the baby kinda hangs...
It doesn't hurt him or her actually when she orgasms it's relaxing and a vibrator cannot effect a baby or hurt a baby at all...

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You're not feeling the baby, you're feeling her cervix that has hardened up for whatever reason.

If it hurts her to have full penetration, do not insert your penis, fingers or vibrator fully into her vagina. Clitoral stimulation is also an option, either orally, with a vibrator or with your hands.

To be sure have her double check with her OB that she's ok to have sex.

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Nipple stimulation for her is alright, but not too much since it can lead to her having contractions/inducing labor in a bad way.

Semen deposited near the cervix is believed to help soften it (which is why people usually recommend sex if you're close to your due date, it helps get things going)

I'd say you'll be fine with vaginal sex as long as it's not uncomfortable/painful for either of you and you take it really slow!

She's getting into the home stretch so she should be having weekly appointments now. Ask her OBGYN what she thinks about it and what your guys' best options are for right now. Good luck and a healthy baby to you!

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I would say your safest bet for now if you a concerned about the baby or think that's what you are feeling is to stick to more oral and foreplay with nipples, etc.... possibly even a bullet and stick to clitoral stimulation versus penetration since your concerns seem to evolve around that. Good luck and wishing your wife and you a very healthy, happy baby and labor/delivery!

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Also, there is so much muscle tissue, fat, skin, gestational sac and amniotic fluid between your penis and the baby that the most the baby will feel is a gentle rocking motion and will most likely go into a sleep cycle.

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Honestly I'm not all certain on her part because she is pregnant and that far but if she were to give you head I've heard positive things about injecting a males ejaculatory fluids during pregnancy plus it's extra protein.