So, there’s nothing stopping me from thinking dirty and getting turned on. But when it comes time to get those thoughts out of my head and into my hands, I just... don’t really enjoy myself no matter what I do. There’s this weird disconnect between my body and my brain.

At first I thought maybe I needed someone else to get me off, but then I hooked up with this guy I thought was... nice enough. Despite him doing all the right things, nothing happened there either. (I’m still a virgin if that matters)

The last time I actually got off was when I was thinking of a guy I was really into... so does that mean I have to be in love? I can’t just wait for the next time that happens! I need release, dammit! What should I try?