Oral sex...how important is it?

Question

I HATE giving head. And I’m too self conscious to receive head, and don’t expect it bc I don’t do it. But the current guy I’m seeing is way more experienced in the sack and is way more of a freak than I am (damn my insecurities!!) he loves getting head...how much do you think it bothers him that I won’t do it? Is it a deal breaker?! Help! I’m so into him but so freaked out about it bc if his sexual needs and wants but I’m kinda excited to continue exploring this side of me even though I’m scared out of my mind!!

Answer

We don’t know if it’s a deal breaker for him. It depends on the person. You need to communicate with him. I personally hate receiving oral but don’t mind giving it and my bf doesn’t really like giving it so it works out but a lot of women would think of it as a deal breaker

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Well I gave in lol. I hated it to be honest, but he enjoyed it so I guess it was okay. But still, I had to stop a few times bc I thought I was going to gag and he’s like I know you can take it and I’m like umm no I almost threw up lol but he said he respected me! He’s like your lucky I respect you! I also did anal and NEVER ever thought I’d be down to do that! But he brings out a different side of me and I’m loving it! I just got out of a very bad relationship, and he’s the only one that got threw to me to break up with my ex and I’m so glad I did!! Only things is, now, I’m worried I might be catching feelings and idk what to do bc idk if I’m ready for that again, plus, idk what he wants either.  But I’m 31 now, and I want to settle down, but I’m having a lot of fun so I’m just gonna go with the flow for now I guess!

Answer

Depending on the person it might be a deal breaker men love getting head

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Honestly, it’s just head.  Most people will get dumped if they straight up make blowjobs a “birthday and christmas” kind of thing.  I often suck his dick as part of foreplay

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It depends on the person honestly. Personally, if it was the other way around it would probably be a deal breaker for me.

Oral sex...how important is it?

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