My husband and I have been through 4 miscarriages in the 2 years we have been ttc. I got a vfl yesterday and another faint line this morning but a tad darker. I’m contemplating waiting till after the first ultrasound to tell him. Is that wrong? He has told me before that he wouldn’t want me to go through this alone and would want me to tell him but at the same time I’ve seen his disappointment and his hurt with each ultrasound that has resulted in miscarriage.