Are your inlaws friends?

Seems more often than not, that inlaws dont care for each other all that much. My parents got lucky, their parents are very best friends :)
 (the two grandpas go to Carl's Jr everyday together for breakfast to talk about carsxD)
But now that I have my SO, the love of my life, I now have inlaws, and they are not friends with my parents, and vice versa. 
They both have completely different parenting techniques and outlooks on the world. And i know they will never ever get along, despite what we say as their children. Sooo fun 😒 
But lets see who else is in the same boat :) anyone have any tips for everyone else to help deal with unwelcoming inlaws at the family get togethers? 

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