I pack my husbands lunch every day before work and write him sweet little notes. I have ever since we got married. I’m very sentimental and have always wanted someone to make a gesture like that to me, so I do it for other people. He always seems thankful for the notes but I found out he’s just throwing them out and don’t want to write them anymore. Am I being too dramatic or is it a douchey thing to do on his part? When I said I was gonna stop writing them he got mad and was like “you wouldn’t keep them!” Which I actually would. And now just expects me to do these things for him, when actually I’m doing it because I want to be a helpful and loving wife.